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gandy street coffee date then more? ☕ 26
there's this cute little coffee shop on gandy street where i go every saturday and every saturday i sit alone like a lemon. 5'5, brunette, freckles, work in publishing. looking for someone to actually sit across from me for once. if we vibe we can go back to mine in st thomas x
💬 Message Herexeter uni final year yolo 🎉 22
graduating in 3 months and moving back up north so literally nothing to lose rn. want to make the most of it. slim, 5'7, long legs, love going out. live in a student house near campus but my room has a lock lol. looking for fun not a situationship!!
💬 Message Herquay area flat empty tonight 🌃 31
boyfriend moved out last week and honestly? good riddance. now ive got this gorgeous quay apartment all to myself and im celebrating. curvy, 5'4, great cook apparently (his words not mine and thats all he was good for). company wanted. wine provided. vibes essential.
💬 Message Hercathedral quarter milf dont @ me 👩 38
yes im a mum yes im hot yes i want casual fun. got that out the way lol. kids with their dad every other weekend. own a nice little house near the cathedral quarter. 5'6, size 12, auburn hair. want someone who appreciates a woman who has her life together AND wants to let loose sometimes
💬 Message Herheavitree girl next door type 😇 24
people always say i look sweet and innocent and honestly its annoying because im really not lmao. work in a primary school during the day but after 5pm im a completely different person. 5'3, blonde, live in heavitree. looking for someone to bring out my wild side
💬 Message Herveterinary nurse loves animals more than people 🐾 27
but im trying to change that lol. work long hours at a practice near st thomas. slim, tall, bit outdoorsy looking. my social life is basically my dog and the odd glass of wine. would love someone to drag me out of my hermit phase. low bar high standards if that makes sense
💬 Message Herjust want a wednesday night thing 🤷♀️ 33
every wednesday im free from 6pm and every wednesday i waste it watching telly. looking for someone who also has random midweek availability for regular catchups. 5'5, athletic, work in project management. live near the quay. not after a relationship just consistent fun with someone decent
💬 Message Herfrench girl in exeter c'est la vie 🇫🇷 25
moved here for my masters and staying for the vibes honestly. the english guys are so polite compared to back home its cute lol. petite, dark eyes, accent that apparently works in my favour. live in st thomas, love the gandy street bars. show me your city? 😘
💬 Message Herpt at the gym knows what she wants 💪 29
personal trainer so yes im in good shape and yes i expect the same lol sorry not sorry. 5'7, toned, loads of energy. live in heavitree with my cat (non negotiable sorry). looking for someone fit who can keep up with me. gym dates welcome but so are actual dates. somewhere on gandy street maybe?
💬 Message Her40 and fabulous come fight me 💅 40
everyone tells me i dont look 40 and i choose to believe them lol. divorced, no kids, own my own place in the cathedral quarter. work in interior design. slim, well dressed, probably intimidating apparently? just want someone confident enough to actually ask me out. im tired of doing all the work
💬 Message Herweekend walks then wine by the fire? 🔥 35
bit of a romantic at heart but also very much here for casual stuff lol. love walking along the exe and then finding a pub with a fire. 5'4, curvy, mum of one (hes 10 and not interested in meeting anyone so relax). st thomas area. saturdays are my day. make them better?
💬 Message Herinsomniac artist 3am is my peak 🎨 23
i paint all night and sleep all day and my social life has suffered massively lol. art school dropout turned actually successful (somehow). slim, covered in paint usually, live in a messy studio flat near the quay. looking for another night owl who wants to hang out at weird hours. normies need not apply 😂
💬 Message HerExeter's Small But It Delivers
Exeter might not be the biggest city in the UK but when it comes to dating? It's got everything you need. Gandy Street is the heart of it all - this gorgeous cobbled lane packed with indie bars and cafes where half the city seems to end up on a Friday night. The Cathedral Quarter gives everything a slightly romantic backdrop whether you want it or not, and the Quay area has transformed into this lovely waterfront spot where you can actually have a conversation without shouting over terrible music. It's not trying to be Bristol or London - it's doing its own thing and it works.
The university brings in about 25,000 students which keeps the city young and the nights out lively. St Thomas across the river has become the affordable area where post-grads and young professionals live, and Heavitree's full of families and slightly older folk who still know how to have a good time. The beauty of Exeter is that everything is walkable - you can go from a date on the Quay to drinks on Gandy Street to someone's flat in St Thomas all without getting in a taxi. That kind of convenience makes spontaneous meetups actually possible.
Devon as a whole attracts a particular type of person - outdoorsy, laid back, not taking themselves too seriously. That energy runs through Exeter's dating scene too. People are friendly, the pace is slower than big cities, and there's less of that competitive nonsense you get elsewhere. If you fancy expanding your horizons, Plymouth is forty minutes down the road and Bristol is an hour up the M5. Check our blog for more on dating in the South West, or see our FAQ if you're new to Kommons.